Are men put off by women that are bitches?

I mean women might be evolutionarily programmed to want to breed with men who are a bit rough, might be some of the time, dominant, aggressive men even if they don't always go for the type in the long term but what about men? Surely men do not have a need to find a dominant mate who can to the subconscious mind 'protect them' as goes the thinking in women? I know there is all of these books 'Why men love bitches' (which in fact all that book really means when you look into it is 'why men love women who have self respect and dignity. It has nothing to do with being a *****). I am a biual woman and I know when another woman is a ***** even if before I was attracted to her, lusted for her, when she shows what a ***** she is THAT IS IT. I go off her because I see the female body as such a delicate feminine thing like 'silky soft roses'. That is just how it feels in a sensual sense but she takes all that away when she is vile and vicious. Are men like this? Even if they still lust for her as in want to **** her do they lose respect for the woman on a personal level? Evolutionarily speaking, are men more inclined to like feminine, gentle women who are kind and good and soft and gracious more than a small minded twithead? Do the same rules apply as for women or is it just plainly different?